There is a saying that with love, time passes and with time, love passes. It is not unusual for couples who were tied up in knots over each other to fall apart over trivial issues or something more serious. Then he or she has a change of mind and may wish to come together again. This may or may not be a good idea. It depends on just how much the two of you wish to get together again. Look out for signs that show you should not date your ex again.
1. Behavioral changes
Your partner was all attention to you and cared for you. Now, he or she may not have the time for a talk or for meeting and even if you do, the phone occupies their attention. Your ex may even be rude to you or show lack of consideration. You become just another person.
2. Your ex is in a new relationship
That is probably why he or she broke up with you in the first place. He or she could be on a rebound and may eventually return. The chances are slim if he or she is in that relationship for well over six months or a year. Even if he or she chats with you on phone or facebook, it is just being polite. Or, they may be keeping their options open.
3. Your ex’s friend’s opinion matters
So your ex is now paying more attention and you think that you are going off into the sunset together. Wait a minute. It could be just charm and nothing else. To truly know about your ex, you need to ask his or her friend’s opinion and if they are negative then you better keep your ex at a well-deserved distance and find greener pastures elsewhere.
4. Being with him or her makes you miserable
You are supposed to light up with joy in his or her presence but if you do meet your ex again and you feel miserable then, the fire has died out and you need to be with yourself forget your ex forever. Just for the solace, you can find out available adult entertainment options and hook yourself up with some fun. If this night makes you feel good, then you have the confirmation you were looking for.
5. You are afraid of being alone or, not falling in love again
For the first part about being alone, it can be said that being alone is a good thing. You have time for introspection and retrospection. You can find time and energy to do something productive. As for the second part about finding someone to love, it will happen given time. Just get back on track, start meeting people and you may just meet someone who will really love you and cherish you.
Soulmates bare their souls. Once distance creeps in then lie flourishes. Lies can be glib. Learn to recognize signs when he or she lies and you know that trust is gone and relationship will never be the same. So why persist with a delusion that the two of you can get together again? Look at the bright side: someone better is waiting for you.